Life like a doll

doll's life...

Wednesday 5 August 2009 12:13

hey all..
im back..!
thanks coz sudi singgah my blog...

well..lately ni kene migrain yg teruk..O.M.G
xpela...mayb aku byk fikir..
ape yg aku fikir?
byk sgt...

aku pun nk pindah..
so..byk memory yg aku rasa aku leh tinggalkan lepas aku pindah..samada yg aku suka atau x...
coz..sumtimes memory tu mengganggu fikiran aku...dats y aku rasa aku nye migrain dtg lik..
mmg aku xnk lupakan..tp nk wat cmne..
manusia tetap manusia..xpenah lari dari sifat ego...well,aku kene mengalah..
aku rasa pindah cara yg terbaik...bukan bermaksud aku kalah,but aku juz malas nk ggu emosi aku yg sudah semestinya aku tau keadaan aku skrg...so,biarkan je...

Study? Aku kira ok laaa...assignment yg menggunung,aku pun xtau bila nk abiskan..
Mood aku turun naik..wat keje xsampai sejam..but rehat lebih 4 jam..hahaaaa...
Bila aku rasa tension je, aku akan contact member aku kuar...tgk movie ke..karoke ke..
tenang sikit fikiran aku...THANX GUYS...

My relationship? Well..aku pun xtau mane arah aku skrg ni...
aku juz xnk sakitkan hati sesape..my mum slalu ckp..'biar org sakitkan hati kita,but dun ever kita wat kat org..'
tu yg aku pegang sampai skrg...if kita nk cari our partner,mmg susah skrg..bila xde sifat saling memahami and x transparent...my fwen ckp ngn aku,mayb ko dh xbuka lagi hati ko utk yg lain...huh? aku pun xtau diri aku sendiri...

My business..? well,so far..so good...hmm..xnk laa cite..coz business ni xleh nk ckp..last min leh xjadi...aku serah je kat takdir..janji aku dh berusaha...pray for me..:)

Oh ya..ni nak puase...
aku takut lepas ni aku xsempat or lambat nk update yg baru..coz busy..
So..aku nk minta maaf laa if sesape yg ade rasa2 ngan aku ke, aku marah2 ke, anythings...
but seriusly..aku juz nk korang dpt yg terbaik...even aku xpenah dapat yg terbaik...
pengalaman mengajar aku...aku dh mengalami byk cite...aku dh hadapi mcm2 dugaan...most of times,aku ckp utk kebaikan korang...not me...maybe aku cm x matured..awek muda..hahaaa
but trust me,my minded yg matured..aku ade mane2 saje if korang nk pendapat..hee
So,aku minta maaf byk2 k...mana laa tau,hidup ni singkat je..hahaa..:)

Well..ok laaa...
Aku nak kemas2 barang..jap g nk sambung assignment aku...
All the best guys wutever u do...
Till we meet again...
bubye..

XoXoXo

fofo

Relationships? It means...

Sunday 2 August 2009 19:59

One of the deepest and most pressing needs for humanity is to have trusting, fulfilling
relationships--so much so that some people are willing to settle for second best. Take a
minute to think about relationships you have had or those you have now. Do these
relationships build you up by encouraging you and affirming you as a person or are these
relationships soul draining, energy zapping and leaving you with feelings of resentment,
depression, hopelessness, frustration, guilt, shame and being used?

Mostly we feels impossible to find someone who's right for you - and who thinks you're right for him or her! It's totally normal to look at the world through rose-colored glasses in the early stages of a relationship. But for some people, those rose-colored glasses turn into blinders that keep them from seeing that a relationship isn't healthy as it should be. What Makes a Healthy Relationship?Take a step back from the dizzying sensation of being swept off your feet and think about whether your relationship has these qualities:

Mutual respect - Does he or she get how cool you are and why? The key is that your partner is into you for who you are - for your great sense of humor, your love etc. Respect in a relationship means that each person values who the other is and understands and never challenge - the other person's boundaries.

Trust - Does he completely lose his cool or keep walking because he knows you'd never cheat on him? It's OK to get a little jealous sometimes - jealousy is a natural emotion. But how a person reacts when he or she feels jealous is what matters. There's no way you can have a healthy relationship if you don't trust each other.

Honesty - This one goes hand-in-hand with trust because it's tough to trust someone when one of you isn't being honest. Support - It's not just in bad times that your partner should support you. Some people are great when your whole world is falling apart but can't take being there when things are going right (and vice versa). In a healthy relationship, your significant other is there with a shoulder to cry on when you find out your parents are getting divorced and to celebrate with you when you get the lead in a play.

Fairness/equality - You need to have give-and-take in your relationship, too. Do you take turns choosing which new movie to see? As a couple, do you hang out with your partner's friends as often as you hang out with yours? It's not like you have to keep a running count and make sure things are exactly even, of course. But you'll know if it isn't a pretty fair balance. Things get bad really fast when a relationship turns into a power struggle, with one person fighting to get his or her way all the time.

Separate identities - In a healthy relationship, everyone needs to make compromises. But that doesn't mean you should feel like you're losing out on being yourself. When you started going out, you both had your own lives - your own families, friends, interests, hobbies, etc. - and that shouldn't change. Neither of you should have to pretend to like something you don't, or give up seeing your friends, or drop out of activities you love. And you also should feel free to keep developing new talents or interests, making new friends, and moving forward.

Good communication - We all know how many different meanings the little phrase "no, nothing's wrong" can have, depending on who's saying it! But what's important is to ask if you're not sure what he or she means, and speak honestly and openly so that the miscommunication is avoided in the first place. And if you need some time to think something through before you're ready to talk about it, the right person will give you some space to do that if you ask for it.